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Yuri Bezmenov's avatar

#2, 3, and 12 are spot on. #9 and 11 are an interesting juxtaposition. Easily triggered people are usually not pleasant to be around.

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Jennifer Klee's avatar

Man, this made me a bit emotional. The picture with your dad in the mirror is priceless. Xx

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Derek C. Blasberg's avatar

I was sort of surprised at how emotional thinking about all of this made me too. But it was nice to be emotional about something other than politics and global warming for once, ha!

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Jennifer Klee's avatar

V. true

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Sang McCall's avatar

So fun to catch up and hear from you a bit here! You seem like the same gregarious and intelligent guy I remember — just a little older and clearly plenty wiser. Those photos sure brought back memories. Love the list! NYC has become my favorite city in the world (while Iceland has become my favorite place in the world…oh the dichotomy). I’m feeling so happy for you and where you’re at and where you’ve been! Take care!

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Derek C. Blasberg's avatar

SANG YATES! Sorry, I’m just connecting you with your maiden name. What a wonderful surprise to see you in here. It was so much fun—and a little surreal!—to take this trip down memory lane. Reconnecting with you is a cherry on top. I hope all is marvelous with you ❤️

PS. Iceland is on my bucket list.

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Gina Lloyd's avatar

Midwesterner’s are the besterners - such a good recap that resonates. Saying this as a US expat in London.

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Derek C. Blasberg's avatar

HOW HAVE I NEVER HEARD THAT EXPRESSION BEFORE? Should I get a ‘midwesterners are besterners’ tattoo?

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Haley Mellin's avatar

Derek, good morning from Norcal! your shoes in the Dorm move in pic -- love them!

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Derek C. Blasberg's avatar

Who doesn’t love a fleece clog? I guess I was setting trends, even then. (And they’d look fabulous in NorCal, that’s for sure!) Hi Haleyyyyyyyy ❤️

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Natalie Guevara's avatar

Same! They fit right in with today.

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Derek C. Blasberg's avatar

Ha!

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Lily O’Connell's avatar

I love this post! My mom moved me into my Murray Hill walk-up on August 29, 2013 from Colorado. I remember walking down Madison Avenue after she left looking up at the skyline and thinking the same, "today the rest of my life begins" and I haven't looked back since. NYC forever.

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Derek C. Blasberg's avatar

New York or bust!

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Elizabeth  Dziedzic's avatar

#17 is so true! My mom grew up in Manhattan and we go back every year on Christmas Day for the week - the best gift ! Only bummer part is that the art galleries are usually closed that week.

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Derek C. Blasberg's avatar

But the museums are open! 🤗

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Yonca Dervisoglu's avatar

New York is so lucky to have you Derek!

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Derek C. Blasberg's avatar

Awww thanks wifey! I have to come see you in London too 🤗

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Yonca Dervisoglu's avatar

You must, hubby!😍🤗

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Rosana Almeida's avatar

The picture with a mirror 🪞 says where story starts !

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carolina ramirez herrera's avatar

This made me emotional because nyc was the first place I lived after college too and i STILL get emotional everytime I go back, primarily the F train where I cried because I decided to go to Europe that summer and then couldn't pay rent when i came back 😂 ugh should i move back? all the feeeels

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Derek C. Blasberg's avatar

Sigh, I’ve cried on the F train too. What a town! 🤗

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Ashley Rudolph's avatar

These are FANTASTIC! I enjoyed reading through all your lessons Derek. Happy 25 years in NYC 🤩

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Derek C. Blasberg's avatar

TIME FLIES… 🤍

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Laura's avatar

Hi all the way from Australia 👋🏻. As a small town girl who moved to Melbourne after University (and visited NYC at Christmas last year) I resonate with so many of these. 💗 your work 😊!

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Derek C. Blasberg's avatar

Thank you for reading! 🤗

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Jim Hilt's avatar

I remember meeting you when you stopped by to see Karlie at an Express photo shoot. And then at our fashion show in St Louis. It’s nice to think about another Midwestern boy moving to NYC and what we learned. Makes me smile as it feels so right. Xoxo

Jim

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Derek C. Blasberg's avatar

It was so awesome to bring my family to that fashion so in St. Louis! Thanks for reading, Jim! 🤗

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AlexandraW's avatar

Love your story! New York truly is a magical place that shapes you for life.

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Derek C. Blasberg's avatar

New York, New York. A city so nice they named it twice!

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Annie Reeves's avatar

Inspiring at any age! Thank you for sharing, I’m 50 and I learned so much!

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Derek C. Blasberg's avatar

The pleasure is all mine, thank you for reading!

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Natasha's avatar

Such a great post Derek!! 🫶🏼

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Derek C. Blasberg's avatar

HI TASH! Thanks for reading ❤️

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